You have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your Prince…
Breakups hurt and seem impossible to get through. They are unsettling and painful, but pave the path to better understanding of yourselves and help you become a better person. A break up makes you a better person and teach you a number of life lessons. Here are 11 things a bad breakup teaches you for life:
- You will again fall in love
No, I don’t only mean the person, you might fall in love with something or a hobby. Most often after a bad break up people discover their passion for travelling or writing or cooking. And in between the process of falling in love with your passion, you might find your Mr or Miss Perfect!
- The importance of giving space
A healthy relationship can never exist if you don’t give space to your partner. Live and Let live is the mantra that you need to follow.
- Makes you strong
Most people feel that they will not be able to survive a break up as they don’t feel they are strong enough to handle it. They are all wrong! Though, super hard it is possible to get over your past. At the end, you will feel amazing and a stronger person.
- There is nobody more important than friends
During your dating period, you must have ignored your friends. But after the break-up, who do you want to go back to? Of course Friends! So, break up teaches you the importance of friends and friendship.
- Who your true friends are
A break up not only helps you realize the importance of the friends, but also helps you see who your true friends are. People you thought did not care for you might be the ones who were there for you when you needed a shoulder to cry.
- Wake up call- Remind you of your dreams and goals
When in a relationship we tend to value only the person and feel like spending all the time with him. When love struck, you ignore all your ambitions and dreams just because we don’t want to move to a different city or take up a job that involves a frequent travelling.
- You deserve better
When in a relationship you don’t realize that you were stuck in a bad relationship and see the real person. It is only at the end that you see how you deserve someone better.
- What is meant to be will be
You will understand the true meaning of the sentence What is meant to be will be. You can never plan or force things to fall your way.
- There is no point in the crying
One thing that break up teaches you is that crying is a waste of time and does not help you.
- Live in the Moment
A break up also teaches you that it is important to live in the moment or YOLO (Ya Ya.. You Live Only Once). Cherish the present and look forward to happiness.
- Being SINGLE is not TERRIBLE
The idea of single when in a relationship is quite terrible and terrifying. And it is this fear that force people to stay in a bad relationship. But trust me, being single is not as horrible as you might consider it. Who knows, being single might just be the best years of your life. It is an excellent opportunity to make amazing memories and friends. You get to have all the ME TIME and have fun!